Pack first
Handheld steamer
Linens, chair sashes, a groom's shirt, a bridesmaid's hem. Wrinkles show up in every photo, and this fixes them in minutes.
Shop link coming soonEvent basics
I'm Katie. Twenty years behind bars, in pastry kitchens, and on event floors. Here's what I carry, what I've learned, and how to build an event business of your own.
Every item on this page has worked a shift like this one.
The planner's kit
These are the tools I reach for when the timeline starts slipping. If I wouldn't pack it, it isn't on this list.
Pack first
Linens, chair sashes, a groom's shirt, a bridesmaid's hem. Wrinkles show up in every photo, and this fixes them in minutes.
Shop link coming soonAlways on
One ear on the call with the catering captain, one ear on the room. You hear the problem before a guest tells you about it.
Shop link coming soonQuiet alerts
A tap on the wrist during toasts beats a phone buzzing in your hand. Timers for every cue, and nobody sees you check them.
Shop link coming soonPeace of mind
My kit goes venue to venue. When it gets moved to a back hallway by a well-meaning server, I know exactly where to look.
Shop link coming soonHands free
Safety pins, a lighter, bobby pins, a pen, mints, and the vendor contact sheet. Everything I need without walking back to the bag.
Shop link coming soonDressed to work
Black, pockets, shoes you can stand in for twelve hours. Looking polished and moving fast at the same time is a skill, and clothes help.
Shop link coming soonSome links on this page are affiliate links. If you buy through them, I may earn a small commission at no extra cost to you. I only share things I use on real events.
Stories from the floor
The tools matter, but the stories are where the lessons are.
2013
So I started Eat Drink N Be Marry to make sure other couples got the planner I wish I'd had. That frustration became a business that's still running.
Pastry
I trained as a pastry chef before I ever sold an event. Knowing how a kitchen runs changes how you write a timeline and how you talk to a chef at 6 PM on a Saturday.
2017–19
WeddingWire named me Wedding Planner of the Year three years running. What actually earned it was the small stuff, and I'll break all of it down here.
6 venues
Running sales across multiple venues teaches you fast what matters to a client and what doesn't. This is the series for anyone who wants to sell events, not only plan them.
For brands
I make UGC and product stories for brands that serve planners, venues, bartenders, and the people who hire them. Your product gets shown in a real setting, by someone who uses it under pressure.
Send me a DM or an email with what you make and what you're hoping the content does for you. I'll reply with ideas and rates.
Or email me:
theuncorkedcoordinator@gmail.com
@theuncorkedcoordinator on Instagram and Pinterest
About Katie
I've served, bartended, run a pastry station, managed the floor, coordinated, planned, and sold events. I've done the job you're trying to get.
I'm based in San Diego and have run Eat Drink N Be Marry since 2013. Before that and alongside it, I worked my way from serving and bartending into event coordination, event sales, and directing sales across six venues.
The Uncorked Coordinator is where I take all of it back to basics. What to pack, what to wear, how to handle the day, and how to turn event work into a business you own.